The Mother Tongue

I kiss my baby with this mouth

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    When Heather Chapman isn't wrangling her 3-year-old son or having the rare meal with her husband, she works as a Herald-Leader news assistant in the Features and Metro departments. She is a life-long resident of Lexington, and in her infrequent spare time enjoys crocheting, calligraphy, and losing badly at Guitar Hero II. Heather very rarely has a good hair day.

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‘Why,’ you ask?

Everybody has a blog these days: from 93-year-old Canadian guys to my friend’s cat. You can even set up a blog for your Xbox 360.

One of the biggest blogging trends, however, is the “mommy blog,” and no wonder: Parenting can be an incredibly isolating experience, no matter how many friends and relatives you have nearby.

When you read mommy blogs, you can find parents who are battling the same issues you are, from infertility to picky eaters.

That support can be crucial, because keeping quiet and stewing in our insecurities is a recipe for disaster.

Kind of like Lynette on the ABC prime-time hit Desperate Housewives. I remember one episode in which she felt so overwhelmed in caring for her four children that she daydreamed about suicide.

When concerned friends found out why she was so shook up, they started sharing their own stories, and before long, she realized she wasn’t the only mother who ever got stressed taking care of young children.

“We should tell each other this stuff!” she cried.

It’s in that spirit that I’m writing this blog. Here you’ll find discussions of women’s and parenting issues, book reviews, and general commentary about my own strange journey through marriage and motherhood.

So come back often: Read, comment, support, critique, debate, and get connected with moms and dads online everywhere.

2 Responses to “‘Why,’ you ask?”

  1. ASH TYREE said

    Just be glad you have the time and energy to sit and watch DESPERATE HUSEWIVES… I don’t have the time or energy to chase a three year old tyrant boy be pregnant, work AND watch tv. Give you props…

  2. pallavi said

    Right said Heather, I liked your blog a lot .
    and what an amazing title! simply love it !!
    keep blogging !

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